Toddlers are such a joy to photograph. They’re curious, playful, and full of personality, the perfect ingredients for documenting natural, love-filled family portraits. But if you’re a parent, you might also feel a little nervous about how your toddler will “do” during a session. Will they sit still? Will they smile? Will they melt down halfway through?
Take a deep breath. You’re not alone. As a photographer (and a mama myself), I’ve worked with lots of toddlers, and here’s the secret: they don’t need to sit still or smile on command. In fact, the best photos often come from letting them be exactly who they are.
That said, a little preparation can go a long way in helping everyone feel more relaxed and ready.
Table of Contents
Table of Contents
- My Favorite Tips for Preparing Your Toddler for a Family Photo Session
- Final Thoughts
My Favorite Tips for Preparing Your Toddler for a Family Photo Session
1. Talk About It Ahead of Time
Toddlers thrive on familiarity. In the days leading up to your session, tell them what’s going to happen in simple, upbeat language:
“We’re going to meet a friend with a camera who’s going to take pictures of us while we play together outside.”
This helps them know what to expect and makes the session feel like an adventure instead of a surprise.
2. Choose Comfortable Clothing
Clothes that are soft, cozy, and easy to move in are best for little ones. Avoid anything itchy, stiff, or with too many layers. If your toddler feels comfortable, they’ll be happier and freer to play, which leads to more natural, joyful images.
I’ll also guide you on colors and styles so the whole family looks coordinated.
3. Bring a Favorite Snack or Toy
Small, non-messy snacks (think puffs or crackers) can work wonders if your toddler needs a little break or boost of energy during the session. A favorite toy or stuffed animal can also help them feel safe and happy. Sometimes those comfort items even make a sweet cameo in the photos!
4. Plan For Extra Rest
Outdoor sessions take place in the 90 minutes before sunset. I know this can feel challenging during the longer spring and summer days when the sun sets later—but I promise it’s always worth it. The light is absolutely magical at that time, and I often find that little ones surprise us by doing wonderfully for this one special evening. The excitement of being outdoors, exploring nature, and trying something new usually carries them through beautifully.
On photo day, try to keep naps and routines as close to normal as possible, and plan for a little quiet time right before the session. A well-rested toddler is far more likely to be engaged, happy, and ready to enjoy the experience.
5. Let Go of Perfection
Possibly the most crucial piece of advice is this one. Toddlers are unpredictable. It’s one of the things that makes them so amazing. Some will run, some will cling, and some will giggle nonstop. And that’s okay.
Instead of worrying about “perfect” smiles, lean into the real moments, like the way your child squeezes your hand, buries their face in your shoulder, or bursts into laughter over something silly. It’s those pictures that really capture the story of your family.
My sessions are meant to be lighthearted and relaxed. We’ll sing songs, play games, and let your toddler lead the way. The result will be honest, heartfelt portraits that reflect exactly who they are in this season of life.
Final Thoughts
Preparing your toddler for a photo session is less about getting them to “perform” and more about creating space for them to feel comfortable, safe, and free. With a little preparation (and a lot of flexibility), we’ll document the joy, curiosity, and love that make this age so special.
Ready to plan your family session? Reach out here and let’s create a relaxed, fun experience for you and your toddler.
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